The secret millionaire: lee stafford
Published
04th Dec 2011
by rachael
Three hairdressers took part in the popular Channel Four programme The Secret Millionaire this year. We speak to the philanthropics about their experiences on the show. "I have always been a big fan of the show so when I was approached I jumped at the chance to take part. I also wanted to find out more about the illnesses and accidents that had struck my family."
"I was hoping I could get a better understanding, which in turn would help my family and in the process, I could help other people.
"I went to Salford, and helped out at a brain injury centre called Basic, a cancer charity called Call and a man called Ted Selby. I helped Ted to reach his goal of £50,000 for Bury Cancer Hospice."
"There were a lot of emotions during the show: it was raw, humbling, emotional and amazing at the same time. I learnt that I can have a good cry, I have got empathy and I could always do more for other people."
"My fiancée Jess complains I hardly ever cry so we were both surprised about how emotional and involved I became. I think the harsh reality, which I normally try to put a positive spin on, just came crashing down on me."
"Before The Secret Millionaire, I assumed all the charities I met were well-funded because they had websites and glossy magazines, but in truth many run on shirt buttons and are facing closures."
"Business people have a responsibility to help wherever they can, from donations to annual team-building days and staff volunteering initiatives. I believe we have a duty to help the old, young and sick. After all, it's going to be us or our loved ones one day."
"Being on The Secret Millionaire gave me a different outlook on life. The unsung heroes are the carers. Their lives get turned upside down, yet they are the forgotten ones. The show also taught me what to do when someone receives horrendous news. I was guilty of crossing the road rather than having to deal with the awkwardness of not knowing what to say. The show taught me to step up, listen, don't be scared of silence; and if I don't know what to say, to say: "I don't know what to say". If you think the news is awful, say: "It's awful," but most importantly, be there and empathise."
"I have stayed in touch with all the people I met, I've become a patron of Call, and Jess and I are going to Ted's for dinner in the next couple of months."
